Archive for May, 2010

When you are a divorced parent, you’ve got your hands quite full. There never seems to be enough time in the day to get everything done, and your kids can fire questions at you more rapidly than a cherry-spitting contest. Arguments over dinner and homework abound. Sometimes, you can get overwhelmed and want to throw in the towel.

Children don’t understand overwhelm. They don’t understand not having enough money. Your children never think to give you any up front heads up that they’re going to have to go buy school supplies for their projects. They don’t understand that bunches of kids yelling and laughing can get on your nerves. They don’t understand their arguing can drive you nuts. They don’t see the full picture.

But you do. And it’s the full picture that we want to talk about here, because it’s that full picture that will help you to unfold the courage you’ll need in order to persevere with your Great Parenting Plan. You have made a plan, haven’t you? You’re not just winging it, are you?

The Great Parenting Plan is where you are all dressed up, dabbing the tears from your eyes, watching your child walk down the aisle at his graduation. It could be a high school graduation or a college graduation. That all depends on your plan. You want to take yourself in thought out to that point in the future where your child graduates and begins to move off into his own life, fully self-sufficient and capable. You’ve got to see the picture of how to get your child to that “dream” place from where each of you is at the present time.

Working backwards from that moment in the plan, but always keeping it in the forefront of your thinking, will help you get through those challenging moments that create overwhelm, those moments when you might not even want to be a mom or dad anymore. There is no quitting option though. Your kids are here and they deserve your best. It is your golden opportunity to summon up all of your resources and give it one heck of a go.

It takes courage to persevere with the Great Parenting Plan, and it takes thinking problems through thoroughly to unfold that courage. One of the nicest aspects of parenting is that the things you need to do the job are all built in. Yep. You had them when you were born. You’ve been building them while you lived your own life. Doing a parent’s job is like earning a Doctoral degree. D. in strengthening virtues!

What happens is that your kids provide some test for you – they test your patience, or your courage, or your ability to love. And you have the option to say “Yes, I can” or “No, I can’t.There are times when you might be thinking that you just “cannot” but your force yourself to say “I can” and then you just do it. Have you ever noticed that in life, when you make a commitment, somehow in someway the fulfillment for that commitment seems to just happen.

When I was a young parent, I needed a reliable car. Car wasn’t in the budget that month, but we needed that car. I made the commitment. I don’t remember ever not making that payment easily. Magically, when you make a commitment, whatever you’ve committed to actually happens – somehow, someway.

It will happen the same way with bringing up the courage to persevere. If you determine that, by gosh, you will persevere in doing the absolute best job you can to be their mom or dad, the courage that it takes in the moment (that’d be the moment when you’re exhausted and they need a ride downtown,) you will bring up the courage to set yourself aside and provide what they need from you.

You’ll do it repeatedly throughout the tenure of your divorce. You won’t remember these moments when you see them at their graduation ceremony and you will be such a proud divorced mom or dad. You’ll forget about all the overwhelm. Oh they’ll have told you “Dad, puhle-e-eze don’t cry at my graduation” and you’ll try. You’ll really try. Only you will know of all the times when you set yourself aside to care for them, of all those hundreds of details you handled to be a good parent, and you won’t be able to help those escaping tears. They’re tears of joy. I know.



Hedge funds used to be reserved, by SEC regulation, for the rich and very rich. The SEC required hedge fund investors to have a cool $1 million in the bank, earn more than $200,000 a year or have investments worth $5 million.

Those restrictions have relaxed though and now almost anyone can take advantage of hedge fund investment opportunities. There are many types of hedge funds available. In fact they are now nearly as diverse as mutual funds.

Though much the same as mutual funds hedge fund portfolios are drawn from the private sector. They use a pooled fund investment strategy but are more flexible than mutual funds because they are not subject to many of the SEC regulations that govern mutual funds. This flexibility is both good and bad. Return on your investment can be very high but because the fund manager is free to employ risky strategies that a mutual fund manager must stay away from, but your losses can be large as well. Typical investment tactics include investment in short stocks, options and futures and buying on margin, that is, using borrowed money.

Hedge fund managers typically have their own money invested in the fund and they are paid a hefty percentage of fund performance. This means they can generally be relied on to maximize profits on the fund while watching carefully for dangerous situations. But they are also paid a management fee that they get whether the fund performs well or not.

The popularity of hedge funds has resulted in a wide variety of differing types of funds but the strategies they employ generally fall into three broad categories:
Arbitrage Strategies Event-Driven Strategies Directional Strategies

Each of these hedge fund strategies have their own strengths and weaknesses. A wise investor will investigate the pros and cons of each and discuss their relative merits with a qualified investment advisor.



A homeowner doesn’t necessarily have to schedule an appointment and drive down to visit their bank or a mortgage lender simply to find out the daily home loan mortgage rates. That’s the archaic way of doing things or so 1990. The wiser and quicker way is getting the information on the internet, which makes getting mortgage rates a whole lot faster and easier. The task can be accomplished in under five minutes in the convenience of your home or even on mobile phone if you have internet access on the phone.

Getting a mortgage loan rate from an online mortgage website can have many benefits to borrowers, sellers, and people in the biz like real estate agents due to the reasons that follow:

Some of the Positives:

1. You receive a quick response from reputable mortgage lenders and brokers as compared to your typical bank which have limited loan programs inside of 24 to 48 hours.
2. Online consumers get the advantage of receiving multiple interest rate quotes which permit you to review, compare rates, fees, and the pros and cons offered by each company.
This becomes extremely helpful and lets you know the mortgage loan amount you are qualified to get based on your salary or self-employed earnings as well as other credit and financial criteria.

For borrowers, it is strongly suggested to learn and understand mortgages better so that you can negotiate with the lender or broker for better rates and terms. Getting your home mortgage loan rate quote is just the beginning stage in the process. Here are a few quick terms in case you don’t have your financial glossary handy. These terms pertain to mortgages you should know firsthand if you are in the market ot buy or sell a home:

Good faith estimate: This is the standardized form listing all the costs, taxes and associated fees with your home refinance or purchase itemized so you will have a very close indication of what it will cost you to obtain said loan. Moreover, some fees are negotiable so it is wise to review then check back with your loan officer of what can may be reduced if applicable.

There are basically two kinds of interest rates

Fixed interest rates: The interest rates are fixed for the life-period of the mortgage loan. Your monthly mortgage payments will be fixed as well.
Variable interest rate: The interest rate is not fixed during the whole term but may be fixed for the first year or up to ten years fixed. After that, the rate may vary on a monthly basis related to the market rate fluctuations.



Spread betting and CFD trading provider City Index (http://www.cityindex.co.uk/) takes a look at the activity affecting the financial markets on 3rd March 2011.

Group external earnings for ITV rose by 185 per cent last year when compared to 2009.

For the year ended December 31st 2010, adjusted earnings per share stood at 6.4 p, a rise from the 1.8 p enjoyed during the previous year.

Following the announcement, share prices of ITV have risen and as of 08:24 GMT this morning (March 3rd), had climbed up by London Stock Exchange by 1.77 per cent when compared to yesterday’s close.

This represents the value of ITV’s shares increasing by 1.65 points. Adjusted profit before tax also surged by 228 per cent.

Net debt was cut down from £612 million in 2009 to £188 million last year.

Commenting on the results, Joshua Raymond, market strategist at City Index, said: “The broadcaster also announced that it was planning on reinstating its dividend, a move that was always likely to be heralded by shareholders.”

He added that after yesterday’s announcement, share prices made a nine per cent gain “to levels not seen since November 2007″.

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Marble tiles are believed by many to be one of the best flooring materials to use in constructing your home, or any structure for that matter, especially due to its certain unique and distinct characteristics. This type of tiles not only offers durability and functionality as a flooring tile, but it also helps in improving the aesthetic value of the room, making it an ideal flooring material for any home. Marble tiles can be quite expensive, but the amount is reasonable considering all the perks and advantages that you are getting when you use it as your flooring tile.

Marble is a natural stone that is considered to be very durable, giving it the characteristic of being able to withstand a certain amount of damage done to it. And with its hypoallergenic attributes, it also helps eliminate the chances of germs and bacteria from surviving on its surface. However, no matter how durable and hypoallergenic marble tiles are, they still have a tendency of getting stained and damaged, especially if they are not maintained properly. If you want your marble tile to keep its shine and beauty, and make it last for a very long time, then you need to make sure that you take care of them properly through constant maintenance using the appropriate cleaning process and materials.

Marble Tile Maintenance

If you want your marble tile to remain shiny and clean, then it would require your constant attention and care. You need to first know what things you need to avoid in order to keep your marble tile flooring looking as exquisite as possible. The best thing that you can do is to avoid using marble tile flooring on high-traffic areas of the house, especially in areas that can cause the most damage to your marble tile flooring through constant contact, such as the driveway, kitchen, and other similar areas of the house. Unfortunately, this is sometimes difficult to avoid, which is why properly maintaining and cleaning your marble tile flooring is crucial in making it last for a long time.

One thing that you can avoid when cleaning your marble tile are acidic substances, such as vinegar, orange juice, tomato juice, and other similar liquids and substances, since marble tiles are highly porous, making it easier for these types of materials to stain the surface of the marble tile. This is why you should only use a neutral pH cleaning solution when cleaning the floor with marble tiles. If you want to avoid staining your marble tile flooring, you can use mild soap and water when washing and cleaning your floor. If acidic substances spill on your marble tiles, you should immediately clean them up in order to avoid the stains on the surface.

Marble tiles are also prone to water spots, so wiping off any type of spill on your marble tiles using a dry towel can help reduce water spots and stains on its surface. However, glazed marble tiles require a whole lot less attention and maintenance since it is able to withstand more damage and staining. Nonetheless, it still requires the basic sweeping, vacuuming and mopping in order to keep its shine and cleanliness. By not allowing dirt and dust to set in on the tiles, you can help maintain the visual impact of the marble tile flooring by keeping it looking great.



Hedge Funds have been gaining more attention in the investment world lately, likely due to the volatile state of the market. Hedge funds have been around since 1949-when journalist Alfred W. Jones created the first one.

The name “hedge fund” was coined because these funds are notorious for “hedging” off losses in unstable markets by implementing a variety of methods, the most common being shorting stocks. The term is somewhat of a misnomer; however, some hedge funds use short selling and other hedging tactics as a way to actually increase return, as opposed to reducing it.

While many people assume hedge funds are a variation of mutual funds, the two are actually quite different. Mutual funds are registered by the Security Exchange Commission, while hedge funds are private, unregulated investment vehicles. Another key difference is that mutual funds are available to the general public, where hedge funds are only available to accredited investors with a net worth exceeding $1 million. Also, partnership is limited in a hedge fund whereas with mutual funds it is not.

There are 14 different types of hedge funds, each with their own strategies. A macro fund, for example, aims to profit on shifts in interest rates and economic policies, while an equity hedge fund uses the strategy of short selling overvalued stocks.

Primarily, most hedge funds seek to reduce risk while delivering positive returns in varying market conditions. Because hedge funds are so diverse, investments can be in stocks, bonds, private companies, real estate, commodities, etc. This diversity is largely what allows them to deliver positive returns most of the time.